Sithelo Shozi is no stranger to the spotlight, the media personality, DJ, and influencer has made a name for herself not just through her work, but through her raw honesty and openness about her life journey. One topic she hasn’t shied away from is her decision to undergo cosmetic surgery, a well-deserved ‘mummy makeover’ following the birth of her children. After doing extensive research and carefully selecting the right medical professionals, Sithelo took the leap, prioritising her confidence and well-being over society’s judgement.
In a culture where plastic surgery is still often wrapped in shame or secrecy, Sithelo has chosen a different path: transparency. She’s been vocal on social media about each step of her transformation, helping dismantle the stigma and starting conversations around body autonomy, healing, and self-love.
We sat down with Sithelo to talk more about her decision, the pressures of being in the public eye, and how motherhood inspired her to reclaim her body, on her own terms.
What motivated your decision to undergo cosmetic surgery?
After having three kids, my body went through a lot of changes, stretch marks, sagging skin, things just didn’t bounce back the way they used to. While I’ve worked hard to love and appreciate my body for all that it’s done in bringing life into this world, I also believe there’s nothing wrong with wanting to feel confident in your own skin. I’ve always believed that when you look good, you feel good, and when you feel good, you do good. My motivation wasn’t about chasing perfection or erasing my journey. It was about reconnecting with myself and feeling like me again. I wanted to look in the mirror and feel strong, confident, and aligned with the vibrant, hardworking woman and mother I know I am.
What kind of research did you conduct beforehand?
Before making any decisions, I took time to thoroughly educate myself. I read up on the procedures I was considering, watched patient testimonials, and joined online communities, especially those for moms who had gone through similar experiences. But the most important step was finding the right practitioner. I wasn’t just looking for someone with good credentials (though that was essential). I needed a surgeon who would truly listen, understand my goals, and treat my body with care and respect. The surgeon I chose took time to explain everything, from expectations to risks, and never made me feel rushed or pressured. Their focus on my safety and well-being reassured me that I was in the right hands. Research isn’t just about reading reviews, it’s about finding someone who sees you and supports your journey with integrity.
Have you had more than one procedure, and would you consider others in the future?
This experience has taught me a lot, both physically and emotionally. It’s not about trying to be perfect; it’s about feeling in sync with who you are inside and out. I feel more confident, more energized, and more like myself again. That kind of transformation goes beyond appearance, it affects how you move through the world. As a mom juggling so much, that renewed confidence has been invaluable. So yes, if I felt it aligned with my well-being, I’d absolutely consider another procedure in the future. I think it’s important to stay open to doing whatever helps you feel your best at different stages of life.
Is there anything you wish you had known before your procedure?
To be honest, I felt well-prepared. I did the research, asked the right questions, and made sure I was mentally and emotionally ready. Having a strong support system, my partner, friends, and other moms who had been through it, made all the difference. I trusted my surgeon, understood the process, and went in with realistic expectations. Of course, every journey has its challenges, but overall, I wouldn’t change a thing.
Did you encounter any criticism or stigma from others, and how did you address it?
If there was any criticism, I didn’t notice, because I wasn’t focused on it. My attention has been on my healing, my happiness, and becoming the best version of myself for me and my family. I didn’t make this decision to gain approval from anyone else. I know my reasons, the thought I put into it, and the care I took every step of the way. When you’re grounded in your choices and supported by people who love you, outside opinions lose their power. I’m proud of this journey, and no one can take that away from me.
In what ways, if any, did the surgery impact your self-confidence or mental well-being?
The impact on my confidence and mental well-being was deeper than I expected. It wasn’t about fixing anything, it was about reclaiming a part of myself I felt I’d lost through motherhood. Motherhood is a gift, but it can leave you feeling disconnected from your body, like you're constantly giving but not refilling your own cup. After the surgery, I began to recognize myself again, physically and emotionally. I felt lighter, more peaceful, and more in control. Getting dressed became fun again. I walked taller, smiled more, and showed up more fully in every part of my life. It reminded me that investing in myself isn’t selfish, it’s necessary. That shift made me a more present, empowered version of myself, not just for me, but for my children too.
Original article appeared on GLAMOUR's Disruptors issue 2025
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